One question that I feel nobody will ever have an answer to is why do men cheat. Even guys themselves don’t really have a reason for cheating
I have always wondered why some guys/men can’t do without cheating.
Even when they are in a happy relationship with a girl they claim they love so much, they still cheat. I just don’t just get why anybody would risk loosing someone they care about over some fling.
A friend of mine and I had this conversation recently and the excuse he gave me was sort of lame; he has this beautiful girl, he loves, cherishes and cares for but he still cheats on her with several other girls; he said and I quote “I love her so much and she must not know about it but then there are a lot of girls in this world”. I didn’t know what to say to him after he said that; knowing fully well that he might actually loose this girl he loves so much if she ever finds out about his other affairs isn’t even enough to stop him from cheating. He might claim to love her but to me, he doesn’t really do; because I don’t see why anyone would do something that might hurt the people they love.
Cheating while in a relationship isn’t as bad as cheating in marriage. You can still think about forgiving your boyfriend, and that’s if he apologises and promises not to do it again. But forgiving a cheating husband? That’s not something easy. I just don’t understand why any reasonable man would cheat on his wife. If she isn’t what you desire in a woman, why marry her in the first place?
Now ladies, here’s the thing; once a cheat, always a cheat. And please stop with the ‘I can change him mentality’! It doesn’t work because you’re not his mama neither are you God. Even his mama can’t change him, only God can.
If he’s a serial cheat while you are still dating, trust me he will still cheat when you get married. So here is my advice, stay away from guys like that.
Here’s my question to guys/men, why do you cheat? Why do you cheat on that beautiful girlfriend of yours? Why do you cheat on your beautiful wife? Why do you cheat on the mother of your cute kids? Isn’t she good enough for you? If you claim to love her so much, why do anything to hurt her?