The Bachelor Life – Episode 1

The Bachelor Life – Episode 1

I sat in my sofa staring blankly at the screen.

A little tired, I had just finished seeing an American film titled ‘Bachelor’ and I couldn’t help but mentally slither through the whole concept of bachelorhood.

For the guys, nothing beats having that feel of freedom; freedom from parents, freedom from a nagging wife and freedom from commitments. No better phase in a guy’s life does he get all these than when he remains a bachelor.

Weirdly, being a bachelor has its perks and difficulties. The perks I will come to later but being a bachelor without them girls can easily be likened to being stuck alone in a desert with the feeling of everyone having gone on an outer space travel.

But if you are a bachelor and you have the control number of the girls, then one of the perks is having the world literally in your pocket.

Plus if you are a bachelor like me, a handsome lawyer with a sense of humor rivaling that of a comedian, intelligence like that of a nerd, a salary from an oil exploration company job enough to comfortably support a family of ten, an SUV car and an apartment in the most posh area in Surulere, Lagos, then the world isn’t just in your pocket, it stays in your pocket and is zipped in your pocket forever.

The feeling of empowerment and freedom was enjoyable enough for me to ignore the many pressures from the different quarters in my family to get married. Marriage can wait.

I wasn’t in a hurry to stop ‘living the life’.

I had always had a thing for the ladies. Luckily enough for me, I learnt early enough that to get your dream lady didn’t always have to be all about the Benjamins. Playing your cards right and saying the right words at the right time were key in the game of ‘girl hunting’. If girl hunting was an art, I would easily be termed the ‘Jägermeister’.

Whilst having the extra cash made my choice of women classier these days, I always had my regular flow of women even when I didn’t have much from my days as a youth corper.

I wasn’t always the randy guy. In fact, I was a virgin till my 500 level in the university. I was aged 24. I had grown up having nerds and ‘spirikoko’ guys as the core of my friend’s circle. I unconsciously believed having a girlfriend was a ‘sin’.

All that was to change from the moment I met Bimbo.

I had met Bimbo in my 400levels. Bimbo had a lovely personality and a chukle that melt hearts. She also had those kinds of booties you will usually see in Johannesburg, South Africa. She was blessed with a firm, rounded and protruding booty held by a tiny waist and a flat tummy giving her the perfect hourglass shape. Bimbo and I had met in fellowship on campus. I was an usher in fellowship and a diligent one at that. I guess I must have been too diligent that particular night because only a diligent eye could have noticed the size of the booty from the distance I was positioned.

From then on, my eyes stayed glued to her like a radar locked missile. I just couldn’t concentrate throughout the service and once service was over, I glided through the crowd to where she sat.

Unlike present day, I was still very shy back then and had not thought of mentally preparing a pick-up line. I just stood right in front of her not knowing what to say. Her eyes locked on to mine and she smiled. I looked away embarrassed.

‘Hi usher’. She quipped.

‘Hello’ came my weak and feeble reply. “…em…was wondering if you have the  offering envelope?”

(Every time I look back and remember that night, I still get embarrassed. Jeez! That had to be a contender for one of the dumbest pick-up lines ever!).

Funny you. Why would I need one? Service is over remember?” she asked, still having that smile etched all over her face. Why don’t you be a gentleman and walk me to my room?”

Oh ok. Why not? (Phew! That was a get out of jail card she played there. Everything is working far beyond what I expected).

I walked her to Idia hall and by the time we had finished gisting, I had concluded in one part of my mind that I had met ‘the special one’.

If it all went well that night, it was to become better in the weeks that followed. It seemed as if she was practically waiting for me all her life! This was 2003. GSM phones had just been introduced into the Nigerian market and I and Bimbo were a few of the lucky ones who had a phone to use on campus.

Despite the rather high rate for calls and text messages, my school allowances went into recharging my phone and calling Bimbo. Calls on an hourly basis and text messages to discuss the most mundane issues became the norm and within weeks, we had developed a bond. (Of course by this time, sex was not part of my lexicon yet).

That bond was to last a few weeks till she decided to attend foundation class for fellowship members and she met the Bible Study Secretary. Bro. Seun.

Our usual meetings started drying up with excuses of having to attend lectures, discussion groups, and foundation classes. Within three weeks, we basically stopped seeing. She also stopped picking my calls and depression started setting in for me. I ‘died’ any time a mutual friend informed me of seeing Bimbo with this same Bible study guy. I felt ‘chanced’ and ‘cheated’. I was only rescued from the torture by a three month ASUU strike that ensured I got Bimbo out of my mind.

On resumption in school after the strike, I was to get the biggest shocker of my life. After a Wednesday meeting, the fellowship pastor had announced to the full congregation that night that the Bible study secretary, Bro. Seun had been engaged to Bimbo. My Bimbo! The announcement literally had the effect of a magnitude 12.0 earthquake on my legs and I was literally shaking till I got back in my room.

After three days of ‘mourning’, self-pity and anger, I rose up and made some life changing decisions; I was quitting the fellowship, I was quitting the ‘Mr. Nice Guy’ persona and I was losing my virginity.

And that’s where it all began for me. Sit back and take a tour of  my bachelor world of sexual escapades and self-discovery.

By the way, my name is Shola.


28 thoughts on “The Bachelor Life – Episode 1” by Ayoks (@sucess001)

  1. Interesting read. I’m waiting to see how the story unfolds.

  2. Adventure of Jenny nko? Uv abandoned?

    Somehow, I am not comfy with the way you wrote this. I feel you can write this much better…

    Well done

  3. On my seat waiting for the tour to start.

  4. You abandoned the hustler or she did you in?
    The tenses did some switcheroos…just be careful is all.

    I have a feeling this would be more interesting than the hustler, because you are a dude. You would infuse the dudity into it, might as well be your alter-life story.
    Next please.
    Well done, Ayoshola. $ß.

  5. @schatzilein..tnx for stopping by…

  6. @sibbylwhyte….

    Tnx for stopping by…

    Please note tha tis is not hustler. the only thing it has in common with hustler is the author.

    The perspective, writing style and diction would be different.

    For hustler, having the number of views in my previous episodes tampered with has seriously taken the wing outta my sail…until Admin does smeting about it….i dunno…

    1. @ogaoga… Do you have any idea why my comments get cut off? It can cause ‘misunderstandings’ and I am not comfy with that.

      Ayoks, yes I know this is not the MOAH, the topic is different, isn’t it?

      1. @sibbylwhyte we cannot reproduce that problem. Can you tell us how it happens? Also, we suggst you clear your cache and cookies on your device, and if possible use other browser or device.

        @sucess001 your views went with our upgrade, but if you can remember the number of views, we;ll be happy to correct it manually.

        1. @sibbylwhyte…i know you know…just explaining that u mite not see any similarity in the writing style and format with MOAH…

          @ Admin…cant remember the exact figures but 25, 14,12,11,10 all had above 1000 views.

          Episode 6 and 9 had well over 1,500 views…

          maybe we can stat with that

  7. @topazo…tnx…noted.

  8. @chymdiinma…sit back…and watch it unfold…

  9. I am defo going to be following this @sucess001. Your new protagonist seems like a ‘good boy’ here but something tells me he is going to be getting into all sorts.
    Can’t wait.

  10. nice work.keep it up.waiting for the next episode

  11. Since u failed to be a very sharp guy, Bimbo had to teach u. And now u have turn to minister of women’s affairs.
    Nice story.

  12. a good story so far, could have been written better though, u could have expanded on the relationship with bunmi, did they date?, did she make any promises?, because it just seems like a normal crush

  13. ummmmmmmmmmm i pity your conditio like a lecturer mine will say back then in school. waiting to read your escapede though.

  14. Really loving it. Can’t wait for the next episode. This is Just the Genesis, a prologue kind of. The heat should be intense When we get to ‘Leviticus ‘.

  15. Nice story, i love how we didn’t get to know the guy’s name till the end that was funny

  16. @tommiebricks …thnks bro….tnx for readin

  17. @montecarlo…lol…thanks for stopping by

  18. @newnaija …lol…thanks for stopping by

  19. @damilareoso…the story isnt about her and heir reltionhip…he rrole in the story is to explain future actions of our mc…

  20. @chymdiinma…thanks

  21. i love ur stories so much ….. are u going to finish Musings of a hustler ? please do thank you

  22. The birth of a ”Lothario”!!!

  23. @sucess001, though reading belatedly, I’m laughing reading through……… interesting read really………….

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