between the male and female folks, who loves better in a relationship…..whose love is most genuine.

I disagree.

With what yardsticks are you measuring this?

It’s a case by case basis. There are MEN who are sincere…waaaaay more sincere than a lot of women.

I don’t believe there’s a way to judge who is more sincere. Yes, they say women are more emotional…they easily give reins to their feelings and stuff. But in the same vein women are so fickle. They fall in love just like that *snaps fingers*.

Men, on the other hand are logic-based beings. A man most like would not fall in love more than twice his entire lifetime…

@seun, in essence, that means it is women. While men are too logical, women are free minded when it comes to falling like a mango tree. When a woman loves, she loves totally. She bares everything. She can go extra miles to prove her love. She can do the unthinkable but that is not the case with men.

A man can love a woman but the ‘man’ in him still remains. That’s why he can screw other women while loving her, hang with his friends till 11 when she’s waiting at home, watch football when his woman is sick, and still be in love with her.

Women actually love better and I’m not saying this because I’m a woman but because its the truth.

Although, we have personality differences where you find girls being ruthless but once they meet ‘that guy’, the woman in them rears its head and they become stupid in love. Same with some men who let emotions rule their judgement.

@gooseberry…I disagree.

It’s like asking who’s better in bed; a man or a woman.

How do you measure such things? These are fluid concepts. How do you measure?

That’s all I’m saying. We have different ways of expressing emotion. My (me Seun) most valuable asset is my time. So therefore if I spend time with you, I must really care about you. No bull.

Meanwhile…some other people value money more than time. So if they buy you stuff…they really love you. So would you say because I spend time and he spends money – I love you more than he does? Or vice versa??

I’m saying – there’s NO WAY to measure stuff like that. It’s a case by case basis.
I judge each person by his or her own merit.

I get your point @seun. I put in my own views based on what I understoofd from the question and what I understood is: if a man loves and a woman loves, whose love shows more? Whose love is felt more?.

I do believe that when you consider these, Women take the lead. As you said, you love spending time with the one you love but a woman will wana spend time, spend money *if necessary*, satisfy you in everyway and all that.

But if you talk about whose love is more genuine, then ill say it differs with personality and not with sex.

@kaycee, there wouldn’t be much debate on that. Most people will say it’s definitely the women.

@babyada, not so sure about that. Have you seen me love? Very showy.
I can even slap a woman out of love.

@kaycee, madt man. Hehehe.
Meanwhile, most women, and men for that matter, mistake Infatuation for Love… Forget what Oyinbo people tell us; those people will soon sell Heater to the Devil, I swear. Love takes time to build. So if a girl falls in love a thousand times, then it is not love, but overdose of hormones on her part. Infatuation, plain and simple.