@Kaycee…Well said jare.
I write my stuff and don’t give a damn what destructive critics say. Who made them authority to tear and rubbish a work that so many others are applauding or appreciating? This is not to say there are no critics who criticize constructively and thus encourage the writer.
To hell with the notion that a writer must have a thick skin. How can you posit that everyone must be the same? Some writers are sensitive others are strong-willed. You can’t have them all like that.
As for every writer, if you were to listen to every critic you’d end up not having your own voice and having your creativity diminish.
Whether we writers like it or not, the harsh critics will always be there..after all, some of them claim to have critic ‘style’ whatever that means. I just feel you are either constructive or destructive i.e…you either help sieve the garri or you pour sand in it!
I’m always ready for critics…let them bring it on. After all its easy to talk than to get down and write a story!