All posts by iyandasdiary

A young man who recently relocated to the country. Single, and i love writing. I write short stories, ranging from inspirational to thought provoking and the list goes on.
Will You Marry Your Spouse Even If Your Pastor Disapproves Of It?

Will You Marry Your Spouse Even If Your Pastor Disapproves Of It?

Will You Marry Your Spouse Even If Your Pastor Disapproves Of It? Marriage has shaped and reshaped the life pattern of millions of people all over the world. Some have come out of marriages, wishing they never went into it in the first place, while some have continued to endure strong physical and emotional pains … Continue reading Will You Marry Your Spouse Even If Your Pastor Disapproves Of It?

Why Do Some Women Continuously Put Down Their Men?

Why Do Some Women Continuously Put Down Their Men? I am not saying this happens with all women, but the truth is there are some women out there who have developed a knack for putting down their men. I was aware that some women appeared to instinctively desire to tear men down. This was primarily … Continue reading Why Do Some Women Continuously Put Down Their Men?

If The Father Is A Muslim And The Mother A Christian, What Religion Should The Child Embrace?

If The Father Is A Muslim And The Mother A Christian, What Religion Should The Child Embrace? For reasons different from what a lot of us think we have in our minds, we find out that we get married to people whose thoughts, religion, and lifestyle differ from ours sometimes. A situation where the father … Continue reading If The Father Is A Muslim And The Mother A Christian, What Religion Should The Child Embrace?

Would You Love An Adopted Child Same Way As Your Biological Child?

Would You Love An Adopted Child Same Way As Your Biological Child? Chiefly among reasons why most people adopt children is when they have given up any hope of having theirs. However, what happens when after adopting one you discover that you are blessed with a child of yours later on? Is it  truly possible … Continue reading Would You Love An Adopted Child Same Way As Your Biological Child?

What Is Your View On ‘Arranged’ Marriages?

What Is Your View On ‘Arranged’ Marriages?An arranged marriage for those who may not have heard of it before simply means bringing two people who have never dated each other before together for the purpose of getting married.Such people do not always have the opportunity to know each other, but eventually get married relying on … Continue reading What Is Your View On ‘Arranged’ Marriages?

Ladies How Long Should You Wait Before He Proposes Marriage?

Ladies How Long Should You Wait Before He Proposes Marriage? What is the actual duration for courtship? Could it be six months, one year, or two years? Let’s hear it as there are conflicting signal and definition of the duration of courtship as there are different school of thought. How long should a lady wait … Continue reading Ladies How Long Should You Wait Before He Proposes Marriage?

What If On Your Wedding Night You Found Out She Is Not A Virgin As Claimed?

What If On Your Wedding Night You Found Out She Is Not A Virgin As Claimed? Everyone looks up to the wedding night with so much expectation. The question is what if you discovered to your amazement that she is not even a virgin as she has always made you to believe? It is not … Continue reading What If On Your Wedding Night You Found Out She Is Not A Virgin As Claimed?

Why Do Most Women Stop Dressing To Please Their Men After Marriage?

Why Do Most Women Stop Dressing To Please Their Men After Marriage? Most men would wish their wives remain youthful and attractive forever, at least when it comes to retaining their flair for fashion. I like her when she is dressed to ‘kill,’ and that is why I was attracted to her in the first … Continue reading Why Do Most Women Stop Dressing To Please Their Men After Marriage?

What Makes You Think Your Religion Is Better Than Mine?

What Makes You Think Your Religion Is Better Than Mine? What is in a religion that makes it more important or better than the other? Everybody says their religion is the right one. Why is one more correct or better than another? Does your religion make you judge people? Religion is about personally held beliefs. … Continue reading What Makes You Think Your Religion Is Better Than Mine?

Why Do Married Men Sleep Around And Cast Aspersion On Women Who Do Similar Thing?

Why Do Married Men Sleep Around And Cast Aspersion On Women Who Do Similar Thing? I decided to write this article because of a conversation I had the unfortunate privilege to hear. Obviously, these were guys who were having this conversation, and the things that came out of their mouth were shocking even to me … Continue reading Why Do Married Men Sleep Around And Cast Aspersion On Women Who Do Similar Thing?

Would You Go Ahead With A Wedding After Discovering Your Partner Is Terminally Ill?

Would You Go Ahead With A Planned Wedding  Even After Discovering Your Partner Is Terminally Ill? This is a very difficult question to answer. It is also a difficult one to decide and even more difficult to do. A real test of your love. Alright a lot of us already know that you have a … Continue reading Would You Go Ahead With A Wedding After Discovering Your Partner Is Terminally Ill?

Is Love Strong Enough To Sustain A Lifetime of Poverty In Marriage?

Is Love Strong Enough To Sustain A Lifetime of Poverty In Marriage? For better or worse or for better and for worse; whichever! We are told by priests everyday couples gather together for a wedding that love endures and bears all; but is love strong enough to sustain a lifetime of poverty? Most of us … Continue reading Is Love Strong Enough To Sustain A Lifetime of Poverty In Marriage?

Why Do We Find It A Difficult Task To Question The Morals Of Our Pastors?

Why Do We Find It A Difficult Task To Question The Morals Of Our Pastors? Even when it is obvious that pastors are mortals like the rest of us, we have discovered that they are beyond queries. Why do we find it a difficult task to question the morals of our pastors? Are pastors infallible? … Continue reading Why Do We Find It A Difficult Task To Question The Morals Of Our Pastors?

Why do People use children as the reason to stay in a failed marriage?

Most cases, when you hear about issues in marriages and relationship. It’s amazing when you hear the reasons behind why couples are still together in the relationship. Most times they claim it’s because of the child that’s why they continue to live together. But is it really because of that or is it just another … Continue reading Why do People use children as the reason to stay in a failed marriage?